An advice received at the proper moment is a life savior. Giving and receiving advices is a difficult job. You take a great responsability on your sholders if that person takes your advice and then things go bad. An advice should only be given by authorised people that know what should be best for you in any situation. It`s true that everyone gives advices because we all have something to say in any situation. We like to help our friends, and of course when they feel bad or have a problem we usually give advices that we think are good for them. But the idea is that nobody knows the situation better than you, and the only advice you should take is the one you give yourself.
Giving an advice is very easy. It`s more difficult to put it in practice. People say many things but if they were in your situation I don`t really think that they will listen to their own advices. People are most of the time very weak and easily influenced, and any advice is a new possibility. We sometimes need a variety of advices from which to pick the best one, the one that suites the situation perfectly. It`s difficult sometimes to do what your heart dictates because the mind dictates something else. You can be subjective because the whole situation it`s about you. You need somebody else`s opinion because it`s from the outside, and sees things more clear that you do. You can receive advices in any situation : when you want to buy a shirt and don`t know what colour or model to choose, when you want to eat something but don`t know exactly what , you also ask around to see what everyone else eats, so you can get an idea. Also, you can ask an advice from a best friend with whom you share everything, when you have problems in your relationship. It`s hard to give a good advice when it comes to relationships because people in the end will do what they want and what they feel. Asking for an advice, giving one for free or not giving at all it`s just the same when it comes to couple problems. Never interfer between two people, because they might end up together again and you will feel awkward. Advices are needed when it comes to working in a company. You need some tips and some advices on how things go around there. At work an advice is very helpful because, if you make a mistake, sooner or later you are going to pay for it. At work it`s not about forgiveness, it`s about survival and you have to work hard to keep a good job.
Advices can make people feel better and can help them take a decision. The important thing is to never take an advice and follow it, before analizing the situation very well. Only you know the entire story of your problems and you are the only one who has the right to take a certain decision. An advice for all of you : take responsability for your own actions!